Spearheart/Wolfy

[Adara]

Hello Everyone!

I'm sure most of you (meh, maybe some of you)have noticed Spearheart, aka Wolfy making some rather unnecessary comments and contributing to our trash can as of late.

Well, because she could not be peaceful and broke rules by deliberately posting something for the sole intent of flaming someone, (lol, mainly me) she has been banned from this site.

Please, if you have any discussion regarding this, keep it to this thread, and keep it respectful. We don't want to see anyone else go out the door with her, unless of course, that's what they want to do.

Thank you for the time!

[thapunkpred15]

Ok why the hell did you have to hurt her?

[Adara]

Jul 2, 2008 20:20:58 GMT -5 @thapunkpred15 said:

Ok why the hell did you have to hurt her?

LOL



Okay, now to break this down in a way you won't understand, but will be as logical as can possibly be.

I. DON'T. CARE. ABOUT. HER. FEELINGS.

Any questions?

She broke rules, she gets banned. I don't see anyone else disputing that little section in the rules where this is plainly stated.

[thapunkpred15]

regardless of if she broke the rules or not your not suppose to hurt her feelings. Why don't you care?

[Adara]

Jul 2, 2008 20:28:13 GMT -5 @thapunkpred15 said:

regardless of if she broke the rules or not your not suppose to hurt her feelings. Why don't you care?

Honestly?

This is something that needs to be asked over PM, I'm not going to discuss personal matters with you on the board. I unlike you, don't air my personal issues to whomever will listen to me, to gain any emotional response, from ANYONE.

[thapunkpred15]

Jul 2, 2008 20:29:56 GMT -5 Adara said:

Jul 2, 2008 20:28:13 GMT -5 @thapunkpred15 said:

regardless of if she broke the rules or not your not suppose to hurt her feelings. Why don't you care?

Honestly?

This is something that needs to be asked over PM, I'm not going to discuss personal matters with you on the board. I unlike you, don't air my personal issues to whomever will listen to me, to gain any emotional response, from ANYONE.

nah u said this is where the conversation about spearheart will be held. So im doing what you told me. U wanna ban me for not putting them in PM?

[Adara]

Jul 2, 2008 20:33:00 GMT -5 @thapunkpred15 said:

Jul 2, 2008 20:29:56 GMT -5 Adara said:

Honestly?

This is something that needs to be asked over PM, I'm not going to discuss personal matters with you on the board. I unlike you, don't air my personal issues to whomever will listen to me, to gain any emotional response, from ANYONE.

nah u said this is where the conversation about spearheart will be held. So im doing what you told me. U wanna ban me for not putting them in PM?

Obtuse to the end, huh?

My personal feelings are not what banned her. The staff unlike you, is a little less biased than that.

My personal opinions about her are beside the fact, this was made clear to her before she left. If you want someone to coddle her to make her feel better, go and do it yourself.

We here at The Hunted don't have much to say about attention whores. She isn't the first, and she won't be the last.

As far as banning you, this isn't anything to be banned about. Asking questions about my personal feelings is not, "ban" worthy. Screw around like she did, and you may find yourself out the door behind her.

That's the condition everyone here, including the staff, has to abide by. You mess around, you get kicked out. It's what happens here, School, Restaurants, and in the rest of real world.

Get with the program.

[thapunkpred15]

I doubt she is a attention whore.
may i ask who made you mod?

[Adara]

Jul 2, 2008 20:42:52 GMT -5 @thapunkpred15 said:

I doubt she is a attention whore.
may i ask who made you mod?

The Admin, Joker.

[thapunkpred15]

Jul 2, 2008 20:44:33 GMT -5 Adara said:

Jul 2, 2008 20:42:52 GMT -5 @thapunkpred15 said:

I doubt she is a attention whore.
may i ask who made you mod?

The Admin, Joker.

he's got 2 all this time? he hasn't been on in a long time.

[E-Stalin [Orthrus]]

I'll answer your last question first Punkpred. Over seven people. That's how we operate on this board, majority rule by the staff. This isn't democracy, it's totalitarian republic.
Unless the vast majority agrees, action isn't taken. So you can generally take it for granted that anyone elected for moderator status had it happen for good reason.

Now, on the topic of spearheart, two things must be gotten out of the way.

The first, is your point of her feelings being hurt. I want to see where this happened. Quotes and links are the only fully acceptable evidence here.
The only thing I've seen was spearheart initiating a conflict after reading Adara's criticism on your stories.

The second problem, is that even if Adara hurt spearheart's feelings, it doesn't matter any longer. Spearheart's problem with Adara was, and should have remained, a purely personal problem. It's a very important difference with a thick dividing line.
If spear and Ada have a problem, then it's personal, and mod status has nothing to do with it. It should remain personal, that means that it should be discussed or argued over PM. It's called private messaging for a reason. If she had a serious complaint about Adara, then she should have either made a proper, calm, rational post detailing why Adara was wrong, and staff would have taken action, or she could have done the same thing, but in a message to Joker or another mod. In this case however, she doesn't have a claim either way.

When spearheart made a public post that broke rules and flamed, she made it a public problem, and that's suitable cause for a ban from a public forum.

[Setg]

Jul 2, 2008 20:45:38 GMT -5 @thapunkpred15 said:

Jul 2, 2008 20:44:33 GMT -5 Adara said:

The Admin, Joker.

he's got 2 all this time? he hasn't been on in a long time.

No, you're right. he's not been on here for a while, but away from the board most of the Gmods have a way of contacting him, think of it like a special version of the Bat-Signal....it's called email. He also appears in the Staff Room from time to time (where nary a non-staff member may venture). We spoke with him a couple of occasions, and we got it sorted. End of.

And with regards to the staff, Joker simply agreed the people and pressed the buttons (not taking anything away from you, Herr J-Man). It was the me and the rest of the pre-Ad/Han/Orth/Malus/Rath staff that agreed that Ada and Orthrus would be good members of staff. In fact, if you wanna question judgment, question mine, as I put her forward for it.

And guess what?

I've not seen one thing on here so far that would make me change my mind. She's handled pretty much every situation so far with respect and responsibility.

If you don't think Spear got any respect from Ada then you gotta ask yourself one question punk: did Spear give any to Ada, or did she she just compartmentalize her as an adult, and therefore someone to fight against? Respect is something that you have to give, to also receive back. You can't just expect to receive it (although some members of this board have been deliriously unaware of that fact) over the years.

For every decent member of this forum, there's always a few more crap ones, waiting in the wings to start something. Always has been, always will be.